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When the word therapeutic is used in reference to my work, I feel a smidge patronized. However, there are a couple of problems with this objection. I cringed because I see the book as a story that I had worked long hours to craft and shape.
I see writing as something I love, but it's also my job. When I think of "therapeutic writing," I picture long scrawled journal pages of unfiltered, uncensored feelings. Why don't you just pat me on the head while you're at it? I sound like an ingrate.
These people are most often readers of my book -- maybe even buyers of my book. They are mostly likely well-intentioned and simply wanting to connect with me about the writing process. Maybe they are wondering if writing about their experiences might be therapeutic to them, and they're hoping I will pass off some bit of wisdom that might save them hundreds of wasted hours of time if this writing stuff isn't therapeutic afterall.
And the other problem with this objection is that writing the book -- and specifically publishing the book -- actually has made me happier, but not for the reasons that people seem to assume, which I figure are a writing is "therapeutic" and b publishing is a glorious experience that brings you uninterrupted joy and the praise of others.
And yes, writing some of the early pages of the book actually was -- cringe -- therapeutic. The first scribblings of the book started on a notepad I had in my purse that I pulled out waiting in an attorney's waiting room. Seated across from me was a very thin woman of a certain age with a box of legal papers on her lap that she held tightly with her two thin hands.
She had a very spare veneer of hair left which was combed over in an attempt to cover her scalp.
Was she going through chemo and divorce? And in this juncture of my life when I was frankly totally miserable and self-involved, I had a moment of insight that pulled me out of myself, of seeing that I was a part of something larger than my own private drama.
I took out the notebook and scribbled a short note about this woman. Making that note made me feel connected to the loss of others, making my loss seem smaller, which, yes, is therapeutic. And I continued pulling out that notebook for the next few months, making notes about the most hideous moments of the freefall through misery called divorce.
Eventually, I took the notes to the computer, and yes, beginning to sketch out a story felt better than wallowing.
But then, the craft of writing took over, and while it is therapeutic to be involved in any endeavor that requires concentration and focus, writing a memoir is work, and it's work that's not as self-serving as it's made out to be; my desire was to write a story that would capture the larger experience of divorce through my specific personal experience.
There's a heap of revision and research that goes into that, two R words I don't usually associate with something that is therapeutic per se. But, as I said, writing the book and the book's publication has made me happier, and I've struggled sometimes to articulate just how that's happened.
Yes, there's a feeling of success, and that's been good. I've made some wonderful friends who I never would have met if I hadn't written the book.
But I've always known there was something else, something that I couldn't quite pinpoint. I began to crack the code, though, after watching this "The Power of Vulnerability" TED lecture in which Brene Brown explains how our happiness depends on our willingness to make ourselves vulnerable.
If you haven't already the video has been highly shared on FacebookI urge you to watch the minute video, but in the meantime, here's what I took away from "The Power of Vulnerability": Even though we might think fame, glory, and praise will be the tickets to happiness, the true source of our happiness in life lies in our connection to other people, but in order to have that connection we must be willing to reveal our authentic selves to others.
People who believe they are worthy of connection tend to be willing to take that risk and therefore keep reestablishing their connection to others and therefore tend to be happier.
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